Yes I know it’s Valentines day – It’s also Ash Wednesday – neither of these are doing much for me today. What is doing it, is the fact that I’m not in the office – I’m working from home! Yes I know I work from home Thurs/Fri/Mon but this is a nice change. Recently, I’ve been feeling clouds gathering over me, so I’ve decided to reason it out online. I used to write in LiveJournal a lot, then one day somebody asked me why I’m always depressing, and that just stifled me completely. I don’t think we ever really understand how powerful our words are – she felt that what I was sharing was depressing and her question stopped me from opening up (to random strangers on the internet).
Anyway – today was a good day – I went to the shopping centre. I know that’s not a biggy, but recently the idea of having to go out, drive to the shopping centre, deal with people and drive home – taking that time out of my day / sitting on the sofa or just generally time wasting, has been a big ordeal. I actually think it started during covid. At the time, I’d feel a sense of victory that I’d done it because there was this sense of being overwhelmed by it. That overwhelmed feeling just never left, and it has morphed into not wanting to change my routine and having to do so also makes me overwhelmed.
HOWEVER, I needed to get a birthday present for my Mam and to get a card for her, so I just did it. I went to the Chemist Warehouse and while I was there, I picked up some hand cream for me (I’m a demon for buying hand cream – Atrixo this time), but I also picked up Kalms, to see if they will do me any good. I know I tried them before, but I don’t have any recollection as to how affective they were. I’m the kind of person who will question, did the anxiety subside because it ran its course or was it because of the tablets? If it gives it a bit of giddy-up to move on though I’ll be happy.
The entertaining part is that I have to do it all again tomorrow – working from home and then going to the Shopping Centre – YET AGAIN – only this time to have a wander about with my Mam. This is actually unheard of, so it will be interesting to see how I get on and how we get on….